The main reason I stay in the closet, and will remain here the rest of my life, is because it’s impossible to convince non-CDs that we (many of us) are not gay.
We get it from both sides – the straight, non-CD world assumes we are gay, and the gay world tells us we’re just repressing our natural calling.
Damn it, no. Because of that attitude, I spent my entire adolescence believing I was gay, and tried stuff that I never would have considered otherwise because I believed I “had to”. After 15 or more years of soul-searching, you know what I found? I like being a guy. I like sex with women, and only women.
Don’t let the rest of the world tell you who or what you are. If you’re 100%, absolutely sure you’re gay, fine (for you… more on that in a later post). But don’t think you have to be gay because “real” men don’t like dresses. Sure we do! Now put on your favorite frock and let’s go play some football.